I always used to think I had trouble with physicality in relationships because I was too shy and not confident enough to make a physical move on a woman I’m with. I recently read a comment on a post about someone else struggling with women accepting him being a virgin (I’ve had similar experiences). One of the comments suggested saying it differently and explain why. She suggested saying he’s demisexual.
After looking into it, I fit that description almost to a tee. After reflecting on past attempts with women, I realized that the only ones I wanted to get physical with, I also had a stronger emotional connection to. To be perfectly honest, physicality (apart from hugs) doesn’t really interest me until I feel emotionally connected, it can actually be sorta uncomfortable at times, I just tried it because unless I do, I look uninterested and they dip.
All in all, even though I will likely continue struggling with woman, it feels SO GOOD to finally understand part of the reasoning. I hope understanding myself and my mind better will possibly be a shifting point in my success.
Tldr: I found out I’m demisexual and it explains why I struggle with physicality and now I’m happy.
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