I (22m) met a girl (22f) when we were at a party and we had a good connection, sang along to some awfull songs and danced and stuff like that. I feel like i had like 3 or 4 chances to kiss her (not sure if they were actual chances, but when i leaned in to 'test the water' she didnt lean back or something) but I sort of chickened out. Also there were 2 other guys who were clearly interested but didnt seem to accomplish any attention (as far as i know)
When the party was done, she went to get food at some foodtruck and when she came back we just had a chat with a few people i was there with. The chat wasnt anything to write home about but she kept offering her food to me, wich was kinda sweet of her ngl.
Later we had a talk separated from the group and we came to the subject of my grandfather who was dying at the time (And actually died the morning after). And she hugged me for like a minute or so. But it got interupted by her friends who wanted to go home. So i asked her number, wich she gave me, and headed home.
2 days later i was in class. We had some spare time because our teacher rushed through his lecture so i dicided to text her (im aware that is not ideal timing to text someone on a monday afternoon) and we had a pretty lame conversation. I asked her if her hangover was bad, she replied, asked how mine was and sarcastically told me "nice profile pic", because i didnt have one. I replied to her question and went to my next class.
Afterwards i started to thing how dull that conversation was and started to (over)think what i should say next. I really liked my time at the party with her and want to thank her and tell her she was the highlight of the terrible week i had. But i dont know if i can just dive in like that. I honestly dont know if she liked me that much and its driving me kinda crazy.
Oh by the way, the day after the party i got a text from one of my best friends, if i could give him her number. I was kinda surprised because he didnt seem to get on with her like i did. And because it a f*cked up thing to ask one of your best friends imo. I politely declined and said ill give her his number if it wouldn't go anywhere.
While typing this i get it if you think it's not a big deal. But the thing is, I'm just affraid to mess it up again. Any advise on how to handle this will be much appreciated. ;)
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