I (22M) know her (22F) for four years now, we first met during at a course for our job. We worked for the same company but at different branches and cities.
We talked here and there a little a bit back then, but nothing serious, we just got along very well. We kinda lost contact after the end of the course, just texted every few months.
Two years ago we got back in contact and met a few times. We went to a restaurant or hung out at her place and watched a movie, but nothing romantic or something like that.
I had to change my branche in december last year and now we a working in the same team since then. She got her office next to mine, but she's only there for two days a week because of Homeoffice during the pandemic. We talk or calling us multiple times a day and talk about work stuff or private things.
We hung out at my place a few times in the last month's but again nothing romantic, just two friends spending time together. We talk about personal things like goals in life or what we are expecting from a relationship (just in general, not our "relationship"). One time she told me, that she would never go into a relationship with a coworker (ooooof).
Since two month's we meet regularly during the week after work or on the weekend to hang out or to play tennis. Another colleague (M20) and a friend (F22) of her joined us and now we always meet up as a group.
Right now I'm nearly sure that I'm developing feelings for her and don't know how I get to know if she feels the same way. My mood brightens when she comes in my office in the morning or when I see her name on the display of my phone. When I hear music, I think of her. Just the typical things in situations like these I suppose.
I'm kinda worried about ruining this amazing friendship and work-relationship if I tell her about my feelings. I think it would be kinda weird to work so close together if she doesn't feel the same way as I do.
Do you guys have any advice how I can get to know her feelings without risking everything?
PS: sorry for mistakes in spelling or grammar, I'm not a native speaker.
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