As a guy, I can't help but feel trapped by this question when women ask it, because it's one of those "pick your words incredibly carefully, because she is going to read so far deep into what you say here" questions. It often feels like a catch-22.
Even if you say something vague, kind of positive but honest like, "I've had dates here and there and met some decent people, but nothing that went further beyond a first date. I get matches, but most are farther than I'd prefer, sometimes the chemistry isn't there, or like most people's experiences, the conversations disappear after a few days," she is going to interpret it as, "He thinks he's entitled to a woman's time, women obviously do not want to meet up for him for a reason, and I bet a therapist would probably have a field day trying to fix his insecurities!"
What's the hack in avoiding the wrath of women negative fantasizing? Is it just a matter of avoiding meeting women through dating apps altogether and focusing on real life encounters instead at this point? lol
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