Really need some advice. Help!!

I've (19F) been with a guy(24M) for almost 2 years now, we vibe really well and even expressed many times to each other that we want us to last till the end.

We live 5/6 kms apart from each other, both living with our families. We (I'd say I have) had texting issues majority of times. The thing is he does while we are texting is, he leaves the on going conversation (like I send something, he reads immideately and leaves me on read) and doesn't inform me that he'll be gone for long and wouldn't be able to continue the convo. He says that he has a lot of things going on in head, hence he forgets abt replying.

Am I wrong or asking too much for wanting to get informed?

Sometimes when I text him, he see the text and still don't reply. Recently, I texted him asking something and he was out, he saw my text (he admitted) and didn't reply me for abt 6 hours, the reason why he even replied was that I gave called him. So he was out, he didn't reply while he was out 'cause he was busy, he came back home, put his phone on charging, slept. I called, he replied.

I asked him he could have just told me he's busy and will get back later or when he reached home, he could've dropped a text. He says he's not good at it, he even forgets to respond to his parent's texts 'cause he lost the habit after he deleted social media platforms. And he said "priorities. I can't just leave what I'm supposed to do and inform you instead"

We don't even meet often as his parents are strict and it's too much trouble for him and for the same reason we don't get to talk on call. But this lack of communication bothers me and I feel like I'm not getting what I deserve. I also know he's a really nice guy and loves me a lot but this thing bothers me.

We had discussed abt the texting issue in the past and he did adjust for me, like he tried to inform me most of the times. I feel like it's unfair that he see my text and still doesn't inform. Am I wrong? I think of breaking up these days.

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