Me (m 18) and my girlfriend (f 18) have been together for 6 months now, about 2 months after we started dating I started uni and she started some kind of a 6 month program. We see each other almost every weekend, we love each other and try our best to make this long distance thing work. On our 6th month anniversary she was told me we were going to a surprise concert. I’m the curious type so I tried to get it out of her and failed. I couldn’t bear the curiosity and checked her phone’s search history (I know it a breach of her privacy but I didn’t think the surprise was that important and I wanted to know pretty badly) and the last search on her phone was “I have a boyfriend but I have a crush on someone else, what do I do?”. I was shocked and asked her about it. she burst to tears and told me that long distance makes her confused and she had a crush on some other guy (a really great and nice guy that I don’t blame at all btw) from her program for a couple of weeks now. She feels awful and hates herself for feeling that way, she tried to tell me before but just couldn’t make herself tell me exactly why was she feeling so bad. I’m not mad at her or putting any blame on her but knowing she feels something towards another guy feels awful and she told me she sometimes feels like I deserve to be with someone that has feelings only towards me. We still love each other and neither of us wants to break up but it’s hard knowing she feels this way towards another guy and even though I really am trying my hardest to make her happy (until now I thought I was doing a really good job) it makes me feel l might not be enough. Seeing her only once every one to two weeks doesn’t help the situation either. I really don’t know what to do.
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