Hello,
I've been trying to improve my dating game recently without much luck. I've been on a couple of dates recently but tend to be rejected after the first or second date. I am trying to figure out what I should be improving most about myself (usually I get reasons such as I am "more of a friend" or that there is no chemistry, but I suspect there is more).
Which of these do you think is more important to tackle for first/second dates: (for what it's worth, I am a straight male in my late 20s)
- Improving conversation. I think usually the conversation is fine, but if anything it's a little tame/boring. I do stumble or get nervous sometimes so it doesn't always flow well.
- Flirting. Similarly, I worry I am not being all that romantic. Most of the chat is stuff I would say to a friend. I only really hug to greet/goodbye on a first date.
- Selling myself. I think I give a pretty accurate representation of myself, but I think I have fairly average hobbies, nothing that exciting
- Dress sense. I just try and wear clean clothes and nothing too sloppy. I don't ever wear smart casual (thinking shirt, nicer shoes) but maybe I should?
- Work out more. Obviously this one always helps but I think my dating app profile pretty accurately reflects what I look like so I don't think this is the dealbreaker on the date
Or maybe the better question to ask is: what from your experience are the best/worst things a guy can do on their first date?
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