This has been said a million times but I still don’t get it.
I decided to date seriously again after 3 years taking a break from the last relationship. In general it’s tiring and disappointing. But might be because I’m more serious this time, I actually like the guys I hang out with a lot more and want to take things further with some.
Out of those, one said on the 1st date he’s very interested but he’s really bad at texting and very sorry about that. I’m like ok I can deal with it. Also I know he’s really busy at work. But he was texting fine on the app before giving me his numbers. It’s been 3 weeks since we last met and he sent me like 10 texts. I do feel like if I stop asking questions he’d stop answering/responding. I don’t know why he’d text me that I’m on his mind and that he’s very interested, etc. if he doesn’t text. I need rejection to move on, I really like this one and haven’t met anyone that speaks to my soul like this since my ex.
The other one said he’s very attracted to me, get my number from the app, and after I texted him good night he stopped. I know I don’t have the right to anything and I am dumb to have expectations but why says that when your actions don’t match? I’m a pretty “stiff” person, I mean what I say and always try my best to align my actions. I wouldn’t say something prematurely unless I’m sure of it.\
TLDR: I wish guys wouldn’t say they like me/very interested and then not text. I know I know I need to get over it but come on, it’s hard. They can stop responding, just don't say those things.
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