I (33F) was talking to this guy (30M) on Hinge for a few weeks. After about a week and a half I said "I've enjoyed talking with you and would like to go out if you want." He gives me his number. Texts me tons on the long weekend. We're both seeing family. On Monday night I'm free. He then proceeds to say he has laundry and stuff but doesn't directly address my question or say when he'd like to go out.
Then on Tuesday he goes dead silent the whole day. So I assume he's lost interest. Did a stupid, neurotic thing and said in early evening "it was nice talking to you." He then gets back to me about being in a tower all day as electrician, can't use his phone. Like what lol. Says I don't seem that interested because I didn't text enough on weekend? I did a decent amount. I apologized a lot for being passive aggressive and immature. He asks if we can go out Thursday or Friday and I said either is good.
We have an awkward conversation about having kids or not I'm childfree. Seemed like he wasn't sure. I'm self conscious about "not being enough" because I don't want kids and a guy might leave. Seemed it went over OK.
Thursday comes and nothing about plans. I said "hey are you nervous about going on date? I might make plans on Friday I'd you're not ready, we can do next week." He says he was going to ask me for Friday because he has more chores to do today. It all seems like... oh you're an afterthought. We live 10 minutes apart? Like it doesn't have to be a long date.
I said I was disappointed in what went down and didn't want to meet up anymore. He said "OK bye." That's it. Must've been mad. But... something just didn't feel right in my gut. Whether he wanted another girl or he just didn't like me that much. I dunno, am I crazy? I feel bad.
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