I like to think that I am decently good looking dude. However, I am HORRENDOUS at picking up signs from women. The other day I was working out at the gym, I have really been putting in alot of work and I feel the dividends are really showing. This happened at night, so there were plenty of people there but it wasn't completely packed. I feel like this is important.
I go up to the squat racks and there are several in a row. There is only one open. I am generally eyes down in the gym, everyone is there for their own business and I don't really want to talk to anyone. A woman (probably around my age) is in the middle of a workout next to me and there was some stuff on the floor around my rack. We both have headphones in so I get her attention silently and give her a little smile. She looks up smiles back, doesnt give any indication that I am bothering her. I motion to the stuff, she tells me it isn't hers so I move it out of the way.
There are giant mirrors lining the walls so you can watch yourself. I begin my workout and I can tell she glances over in my direction once or twice. I don't really think anything of it, again, I'm proud of the work I've put in.
She continues her workout and periodically will turn and lift up her shirt and check out her butt. She did this at least 3-4 times and was very apparent about it. We met eyes in the mirror one time after that and she just gave me a little smile.
I finished my workout and left without saying anything to her. She didn't give any other indication she wanted to talk so I just left it alone.
Was she trying to flirt with me? Should I have done anything differently? I am generally very cautious about approaching women in the gym. Everyone's there for themselves and generally don't want to be bothered. I might not be able to convey it in text form but it just seemed like it was very obvious she was trying to get me to look. However, it isn't like we were the only two people there so that is throwing me off.
I guess I just want to know in case i see her again. If there is something to pursue I would definitely be interested.
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