I matched with a man on Bumble, we exchanged few messages and did FaceTime (happy to do FaceTime to verify each other etc) and this was Monday. We did few more FaceTimes and then met on the Saturday.
I felt I had to carry the conversation or there was awkward silences. I thought he maybe, nervous so decided to go on date - the date was okay. However, after the date it was the same “good morning” text everyday, no other communication or trying to build rapport. I tried to get to know him, build connection and ask questions “he said he will share information more we see each other, it’s too early”. But, I don’t want to wait 1 week each time to find out information about him as work schedule restricts us meeting during the week.
We met today, oh my god he was so boring. I ended date early and made an excuse to go home. It’s been couple weeks and 2 dates, he won’t share his social media or surname with me. If I didn’t end things today, he would have sent the same told morning my text everyday for another week before we meet.
He wanted to build a physical relationship, I’m not against it but I’m not building it without knowing your name/social media.
I DON’T want a penpal. I’m happy to do FaceTime and meet up asap, build rapport and connection. But, there needs to be an element of texting relationship too. I tried to bring up TikTok as it’s funny and can share videos, but he had a judgemental view on TikTok.
AITA?
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