I (22M) met someone (20F) and we were hitting it off, but some of her friends and a couple of mine know her way longer than I do, and now they are saying stuff about how her culture looks at relationships. She has already had one or two relationships before I met her, and to put it shortly, her culture dictates that if you have a sexual relationship with someone, that person will be the one you'll marry. Now, here's the thing: she already had a relationship that her parents know of, and she didn't marry that person. So now, in her culture and family, she is sort of looked down upon. But I didn't know this, and I asked her out for a date. However, I'm not ready to marry anyone because I don't have all my things that I want in order, and I don't want her family to know that she is dating another guy who won't marry her, because if that happens, she will be looked down upon even more. She really is a nice girl but I don't want that her family is going to look down on her more. So, how can I decline the date respectfully without putting her in a bad spot?
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