To keep it short and sweet i asked a former co worker out on a date i was very shy and she also had a shy personality from what i could tell. She claimed she likes to take things slow and i respected that. We went on a couple drink and movie dates but both times she seemed very nervous and her body language was closed off. It felt weird because we would text often and it felt warm but in person she projected a vibe that she wasnt comfortable and it felt like she didnt want to be there.
She would run hot and cold with me in the month i dated her and another co worker reached out telling me that before we started seeing each other she had sent him nudes and that she was just playing me because she was broken up with her ex and she was just lonely. Due to her being a bit evasive with her past and not answering my concerns i decided to cut the cord but sometimes i think maybe i was being insecure/pushy about the situation.
What would your advice be if a woman tells you they want to take it slow but they werent necessarily doing that with others before you and not clarifying the reasons as to why they want to take it slow with you.
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