I am currently talking to a guy I used to date. Mind you, when we broke up, he immediately asked his ex to get back together. This left me quite traumatized and lost trust in him. Fast forward to a few months after the breakup, he said he wanted to retry and make things work. I can see that he has changed and treats me better.
BUT, he has somehow turned extremely insecure. I told him that I wanted to take things slow because I wanted to heal from what happened. He said ok, but would sometimes change his mind and rush things. I really hate how he's inconsistent and goes agaisnt what we agreed on. What's annoying is that he would send me a long paragraph when I dont reply to his text for hours (around 5, less then a day). It's getting annoying and really stresses me out. When we hangout, he would have thos expression that shows he is overthinking about whatever minor detail I said.
I know I am wrong. I would really love to stop everything, but he is one of my closest friends and I am afraid I will lose him as a friend. I know this is selfish of me, but it's really hard for me to make friends esp when I dont live with family. It gets lonely. I enjoy hanging out and talking to him, it's just annoying how a fun day out would.often end in a long talk about 'what are we'. He kept on saying 'I wanna make us work' which really icks me. My gut keeps telling me to just end everything and stop whatever we are doing rn. I am also dealing with some sort of mental health issues which makes everything even harder.
Thoughts on this? Would really appreciate some tips🥲
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/3LQq0g2
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment