About a week ago my boyfriend reached out letting me know that he received bad news from back home. He was very vague but he told me he was getting a flight out the next morning and he requested that he would need space. He thanked me for my support and let me know that he loves and appreciates me. We have been no contact since and it's really starting to impact me especially since I am unsure of how he is doing and what's going on in his life. I'm also getting in my head a bit and concerned that he won't reach out anytime soon since it's been over a week with no contact from him. I made the mistake of reaching out after 5 days to check in but I still haven't heard back. I'm confused since I thought things were going well in our relationship and we were working through problems we had in the past. I don't want to be selfish but his silence is really impacting me and it's not helpful when I haven't heard from him. It's not like him to go this long without reaching out. Overall I know he's not the best at communicating and checking in and he has admitted that himself and said he needs to work on it. There was a time where I didn't hear from him for a day when he was with family which I understand but an entire week isn't ideal. I know I may sound crazy and clingy but I just need advice on what to do in my situation since it is making me wonder where we stand. I would appreciate any advice if possible. I don't want to overwhelm him more than I probably already have since it sounds like he's dealing with something personal. I've tried to distract myself and work on things for myself but he is constantly on my mind and I just want to make sure that he is okay.
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