I (30M) have recently matched on the app and went on dates with this girl (25F) for the past two weeks. We moved off the app pretty quickly to meet up. The first date went well as the chemistry and vibe were all there. We quickly setup another date next week and went even better and now have the 3rd date this Friday. I can tell that she is interested by her behavior both IRL and text. We text but as we are both not big texter and busy people its basically a few convo a day but they arent dry one-word or boring "hows your day?" ones either as there are a lot of flirting back and forth.
However, I recently noticed that she has unmatched me on the app a couple of days back. Mind you in this time frame we setup another date and continue texting. This confuses me quite a bit. Now I understand that we are in the super early stage and its perfectly fine (actually expected) that shes still dating around as I also am talking to other people as well. I also make no assumption that shes in love with me or anything so Im prepared to get ghosted or the "not a good match" text at any moment. Having said that, this is a bit weird for her to unmatch me in the app and still texting and planning on dates. From my experience, even people who ghosted me wouldnt even unmatch me after quite sometimes. Is this a signal that she's preparing to ghost or unserious so I should take a step back and not focus on her as much? Or is this just her wanting to not let me know that shes updating her profile and still dating around which I mean is a bit unnecessary and shady? Im not going to even entertain that she has deleted her profile or the app because thats just unrealistic. I know most of the answer are "talk to her" but we are still too early for that type of talk so I just wanna see if others have had similar experiences so I can tailor my approach to her.
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