Hey guys!
I 25m had a fling with a girl 23f that lasted about 3 months, from november to january. I was away for work for the most part so we were pretty stuck in the talking phase. But we met up a few times whenever I was at home and we had the time.
I was away for 7 weeks and when I got home I told her I would like to see her. She said she was unsure and asked me what I was looking for. I told her upfront that I was looking for something more than just friends and would like to get to know her better as I think she seems like a really nice person.
She then said that: ”I think you are a great guy, I am currently not looking for anything but nothing is impossible in the future. I’m gonna be honest with you, I’m not currently in the headspace to date anyone but I really couls see this working out in the future”. Something along the lines of that.
I then thanked her for her honesty and told her she is a great gal.
I was a bit bummed ofcourse because I really liked this one, something just felt really good about her, but decided I’m just gonna move on and let her think about it. I just felt like if we would continue talking I would put some unneccessary pressure on her and we would just end up as friends or something along those lines.
This all was about a month ago and I have thought about her from time to time but been like its whatever. Until last weekend when some of her friends told me that she was a bit bummed too, and she had told them that I had not told her what I wanted?
This has left me thinking about her more, because I feel I made myself pretty clear and what is there that she did not understand? Would it be weird or creepy to start talking to her again after its been a month, I would just like to set everything straight and gain closure if nothing else :/
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