As a man, I’m finding that when it comes to dating, I am chosen by the women. For example, if I am at a bar, a girl starts looking over, and I can go talk to her and get her number. This doesn’t sound so bad. I’ve dated plenty of girls this way.
But whenever I have asked someone out who I really like, they always say “no” or “I’m busy” or similar. For example if I like someone, have gotten to know them, I’m keen, make a move; I get shut down.
It’s beginning to feel like I have no power over my options, and instead I’m just given opportunities with people I don’t feel too strongly about.
It would be nice for once if I met someone I liked, I initiated, and then they said yes. I have never dated someone this way. When is it my turn to decide? As a man it makes me feel weak and at the mercy of some girls whim.
My only conclusions are that maybe there is something wrong with my approach or I’m going after people who are wrong for me.
What do you think?
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