I’m in my late 20s/female. He is 38/male. I originally met him through friends and went on a date with him. Everything seemed great and fun but he backed away shortly after. So, I moved on. This was over a year ago. We’re friends on Instagram. I figured he wasn’t attracted to me physically so we’d be platonic friends or acquaintances. I’m a lingerie model on the side (not my full time profession as I have a degree in international relations and have a job I love) In the last 3 months, anytime I post a picture from a shoot, he DMs me saying things like “you’re incredibly sexy” or “wish you’d model lingerie for me” something along those lines. Yet anytime I reply with something that could start an actual conversation, it’s a one word reply from him or he will just “like” my response. Ok, so then I move on. Then he slides into my DMs again. It’s always about me being “sexy” or whatever. I’ve even tried to respond by commenting or joking around about sports as I’m a huge Boston sports fan and he’s a NY fan. It’s a few word response. Ok. However, in no time, he will DM me again. I know he has quite a personality because he’s a local comedian and has his own podcast. After being genuinely confused, I looked at his Instagram more closely and it appears there’s been other girls he flirted with but they then unfollow him (I’m guessing due to the games.) Should I just block him or should I confront him and say if you’re genuinely interested you have my phone number? Is there a reason a 38 year old guy would play a game like that? Or am I reading this wrong?
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