So for context I’m 21f almost 22, he’s 28m. We met online and went out a couple times. From the parts of his personality I’ve seen I actually really like him and if he was being honest with me we have lots in common and ultimately want the same thing.
I just don’t think it will work.
Basically I’m staring professional school soon, my parents were very much against this because of how we met the age/experience gap, and because I’m about to start school. My dad thinks he just wants to mess around and is basically preying on me because I’m young and inexperienced with relationships. I told him my parents were against it so he knew what he would potentially be getting himself into. I was met with extreme resistance from my dad (he even said something like tell him I’m coming for him.. like what does that mean), but ultimately was told it’s my choice and I have to live with my decisions.
I’m dealing with a lot of big decisions rn and in a very short amount of time it feels like my world has flipped upside down. I’m very sad and weepy, confused and a mess. This is not normal for me, but I know it will pass soon. I think it’s the stress of having to make life altering decisions and some tension between my parents, which we are going to work on.
He’s away for a few weeks and I’ll be on vacation one of those weeks also. He messaged me today but I don’t know what to say.
I feel like we connected in the short weeks we’ve known each other, he’s a good guy (from what I know), didn’t do anything wrong, but the timing is not the greatest and I’m currently a bit of a mess and that’s not fair to him.
I feel really bad because I won’t know what it could’ve become and he didn’t do anything wrong, but it just may not be the best idea.
Any advice?
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