I don't understand why women always ghost me. I'll meet a pretty lady in a club or bar, have a nice conversation, and occasionally we'll make out for a while. She gives me her number or Instagram and tells me to text her. I do. They don't respond, so I try calling. They never respond.
Two days ago, a girl gave me her Instagram and invited me to have breakfast with her the next day. I suggested a place, she gave the time, and I was there the next day. She wasn't, without a text or call to let me know.
Last night I ran into a girl who ghosted me just the day before. We spent a couple nights back making out and talking. I asked her why, telling her it was not the adult thing to do. She said she was really immature. Fucking A right.
Just last night I got 3 girls' numbers and not a single one of them replied to me today. With one who seemed really enamored with me, I specifically asked her to keep in touch because women ghost me all the time. She pinky promised. Now she doesn't answer any of my calls or texts.
I'm really starting to lose my temper about shit like this because it always happens. Every time. This goes back years now. And it's not like the girls are clearly aversive towards me when we meet. They're generally playful, tell me how handsome and charming I am, and we have a good time. But then they just disappear for no reason, and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Even outside the ghosting, I just get treated like shit by women all the time.
As cliche as it seems, I'm super cordial. I always ask if I can touch them when I try to dance, always take immediate rejections gracefully, and never interrupt the lady I'm talking with. They tell me they're impressed with how proper I am, how athletic, etc. Then they just never answer me.
What the fuck am I supposed to do? It's every fucking time!
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