I was just in a situation where a girl was stringing along three of us, all knowingly. She kept telling each of us individually that "we were the one she was choosing". Wonderful girl at first, except eventually everything had to be about her. One by one she broke each of our hearts when she got bored with us, but during that time we were each under the assumption that she was only dating the one of us. I was so desperate to loved by someone I didnt care how toxic the conditons were, and I think the other guys were in the same boat.
She recently asked to start hanging out again. As much as I was into her I had to say no, because I know it would just be repeat of the cycle.
Sometimes it's better to value yourself alone than let someone treat you as a token with them. We all have something to offer, even if the person who will appreciate that value hasn't found us yet. Know your worth, non of us deserve to be a consolation prize.
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