I met this girl over a dating app and after about two weeks of sporadic messaging we finally met shortly before Christmas. It was a nice date, we had a good conversation and the atmosphere was pleasant. I noticed that I felt something for her even though I hardly knew her.
After that first date we continued writing and interest turned into attraction. I would like to say mutual attraction, but honestly, I’m not so sure. Most of the time, I’m the first one to text. She responds and sometimes we exchange a couple of teasing messages back-to-back. It’s fun while it lasts but I never feel like she’s genuinely interested in me. For instance, she never asks about my day (unless I ask her about hers first), my interests or if I want to meet with her.
I get that some girls prefer guys to make the first approach, but didn’t I already do that? I also get that not everyone’s into texting, but at some point you need to let the other side know what your intentions are, or at least give hints, right? I don’t want to seem needy and I certainly don’t want to annoy her. But I’m also afraid that backing off will result in her believing I’ve lost interest.
I guess I’ve been trying too hard even though I haven’t crossed any boundaries. It’s not like I write her all the time. I told her that I would like to meet again and she said she would too, so why am I not relaxed?
I’m trying to stop being the first to write but it’s hard because I like writing with her. I like the feeling of excitement rushing up whenever I see her name on my display. Do I need to tell her that or should I wait for her to make the next move? I mean it should be pretty obvious by now that I am interested in her.
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