Met this guy on dating apps a few days ago and started chatting. I was instantly into it, he’s so funny and texts back fast and I was getting excited. Long story short, he ended up telling me (sorta by necessity, long story) that he had just started talking to another girl and I know who it is. We aren’t friends but I know her.
Obviously this is completely fine- we’ve only texted and it’s sort of assumed that people from apps are dating around. Im doing the same but no one that I like nearly as much. He said it isn’t serious with them but it honestly killed my buzz. I think he’s so cool and don’t want to ruin this for myself but I keep thinking about it and haven’t been replying to him with the same enthusiasm anymore.
I don’t want to get too invested and get hurt. I don’t know how I would navigate asking how their relationship is progressing. All of that. I hate the idea of competing for a guy and that’s what it feels like. And then I have the added feeling of guilt that I know the girl and I don’t want to interrupt.
Am I being dumb and waaay overthinking? Should I just go for it? Or should I tell him best of luck and to hit me up if things don’t work out with the other girl..?
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