I (26M) have been dating this girl (22 F) for the past two months. Everything started out great, we had a ton of fun in our first date and there was a lot of chemistry between us (to the point we were talking about how we wanted to have sex with each other after the first date). We would see each other every weekend, at least once and twice (but we were messaging daily, sending each other memes, etc). Everything was going great we said that we liked each other, and every time we would see each other we had a great time.
After about a month of dating her birthday was coming up and instead of giving her chocolates or flowers I thought it would be better if I gave her something that had a little more thought put into it; she really liked her birthday present and said she was not expecting it.
Things seemed to be going great until we had sex (I had an off night and couldn´t make her cum, and I told her I owed her one when I dropped her off). After that things started to get a little awkward and her replies when we were messaging were drier than before.
I asked her what was going on she said that she felt that I didn't do enough to make her cum and that it seemed like I didn't care and gave up easily after not making her cum. I apologized and said it was never my intention to make her feel that way, and that I wanted to talk and try to work things out. She has been away the past couple of days and when I told her that I wanted to work things out she replied that she would let me know when we can talk.
I'm looking for advice on what to do since it's the first time i've been in this situation were one night of bad sex seemed more important than any of the previous time we were dating. Also should I text her again to try and work things out or wait until she does?
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