What makes an overweight woman 'sexy curvy' as opposed to 'the fat girl'?

I'm a female in my early 20s and I'm about 16.5 stone (~230 pounds). I'm pretty comfortable with my weight and the way I look but I was wondering, from an outside perspective, what makes a fat woman come across as sexy instead of seeming like a sad potato?

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