Hello everyone, I hope someone was in similar situation as me and can maybe share their story to help me chill out cuz I can't stop thinking about a girl and I have difficulty speaking to her atm and I'm scared to ask her out.
Small background about me: I never had a gf, I was scared of human interaction untill I was 15 ish due to bullying (I was small, and geeky, easy target, especially in a slavic country where even teachers made fun of me). Then I moved to uk at 17 and had trouble getting to know people (slavic accent, lack of social skills and just inability to interact with people).
I managed to get into uni, get a part time job (customer assistance) so I learned social skills, when rona hit, I hid again since all classes were online and It wasn't good for my mental health.
So basically Im a bitch and never had romantic relationship, also I get charmed/infatuated by some women, my head starts spinning and I can't fcking get eye contact going. So I was trying to interact as much as I could with women who don't do that to me as training wheels or w/e. Then I met her at my current temporary job that Im leaving (to work in my study field).
So she is my co-worker, but I will be moving to a different job in a couple of days. It was a customer service job so we are all wearing masks. I got to talk to her a bit during last shift (she joined like a 2 weeks ago and we didn't talk much since we had different shifts/duties).
It was very chill and fun interaction, she was attracted to me I think, she laughed at some of my lame jokes, I knew people in the university she was going to and we had things to talk about. She is also similar age and from the same country so I was gonna ask her for her number after we are both done with the shift...
Yea she took her mask off and I got struck instantly and I quickly said "ok, bye, have a nice evening" and left quickly.
I found her on FB but I don't really want to msg her via FB, even though it would be easy, She ends the shift when I start mine on Tuesday so I could ask her for a number then.
Im so infatuated, my heart rate has been risen since that day and I can't fcking stop thinking about it or calm down, not sure if it was ever this bad. Im what u call, a loser, feeling like she is way out of my league, Im good looking, but she could actually be a runway model if she was taller, and she was laughing at my lame jokes and initiating conversation with me whenever we passed each other (while she does not do it with everyone) but I still dont know how to proceed or calm the fck down.
The fact that I started dieting, and stopped watching porn/masturbating does not help (I was porn addict for sure), I know if I would masturbate I would calm down but I would lose motivation to set up a date. I would just avoid her then.
Thanks for reading my post. Any advice would be appreciated, Im down for voice chat if anyone wants to.
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