The girl I am seeing for a while now invited me to a little party with her friends yesterday. I got into several conversations with everyone at the party at first and it was going really well for about an hour. But after a bit of talking to everyone they started talking about stuff they all knew about but I didn't, like stuff related to their social circle. I tried really hard to involve myself in their conversations and occasionally came up with a question or two but it got more difficult and difficult till I eventually just sat still. That was really frustraiting and the girl I am seeing noticed this and asked me why I'm so quiet and won't interact with their conversations. I tried my best but failed. She noticeably got a little bit mad at me. I texted her today saying that I felt a bit off yesterday and that I am sorry for that. She responded that she noticed that. I think I totally messed up with her and I believe that she will not text me ever again even though we actaually had a couple of nice dates before : (. I assume that I really need to work on my social skills regarding interaction with groups of people I don't know. I am m/19 btw.
What do you guys think about this, what should I do? Any tips/advice would be much appreciated!
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