I (26F) haven't been in a relationship for around 4 years due to liking my own company and being independent. I now feel I'm ready to start dating and I was talking to this guy on tinder for a couple of weeks who literally seemed perfect for me on paper and we were really hitting it off.
I was so nervous to date that I cried a couple of nights before the date which isn't normal but I get so anxious about these things. We went on a date and I didn't feel attracted to him but we had good conversation so I thought it might be a slow grower... I said I'd like to see him again and he agreed, was very keen and we kissed.
We continued to talk and met up for a second date. Before the date I cried again but this time it wasn't so much from nerves but because in my gut I felt there might be a chance I wouldn't be attracted to him. I can't pinpoint exactly what it was, I think it was a combination of attributes and behaviours, but I got the dreaded 'ick'. I carried on being friendly but I felt so uncomfortable the whole time and at the end of the date we kissed again...I pulled away in the end and, yet again, cried. I think because I felt so bad I had a miserable date because this guy is so nice! But I'm just not feeling it romantically..
I don't know what to do because he's invited me to his house to cook for me and I'm not sure how to respond. I could go just to triple check that I'm not interested but I don't want to lead him on and we all know what happens when you visit someone's house lol... I feel so so bad letting him down, I'm really at a loss of how to word things best. Any advice would be appreciated :)
Sorry that was long..
TL;DR - Got the ick with a really nice guy who's perfect on paper but feel bad to end things..
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