So I’ve been seeing this girl for about two months, and we’ve gone on about ten + dates at this point. It’s come to a point where I’ve been paying for every date (drinks and dinners for the most part) and got frustrated about it.
So I brought it up to her, and she said she expects guys to pay for every dinner and date, and that it doesn’t feel chivalrous or romantic to split a dinner. I said that I personally think that’s ridiculous, and she said every guy she’s dated has done this. Apparently this is the norm for many guys?
To me this is a massive red flag. She said that unless we’re in a serious relationship, I’m expected to pay for nearly everything. (She did say that she likes to get her guys in the past random “treats” but I’ve never experienced that.)
I was raised where I should be a gentleman and pay for the first few dates (and I know some girls expect that), but I think that past that we should be splitting at least some of the expenses—am I in the wrong here?
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