Hey redditors, need some perspectives and advices.
I met a girl on dating app a little over a month ago. She made it clear since the beginning that she doesn’t want anything serious cause she just got out of an abusive relationship and i was totally cool. We hung out almost everyday for a week (best dates so far), held hands and cuddles, no sex, only kisses on cheeks and neck. I asked her, what are we and she replied sorta “dating but not exclusive”. Eventually i asked to break it off as i can’t continue with this, knowing her being intimate with someone else (held hands, as admitted herself) while still being intimate with me.
Days pased and i messaged her that i missed her and she said she missed me too. We texted and let our feelings out. She said she liked me, missed me and wish i was here. (She was celebrating her birthday somewhere near the beach) But she can’t be in a relationship with anyone yet cause she hasn’t fully recovered from the past. I drove an hour to see her in the middle of the night. Cuddled and hugged each other till the next day and i left.
Texted and called her after that but no replies. She eventually got her brother in law to send me threats and said i was bothering her. I sent my last message asking why she led me on and trashed me right after like it was nothing? Then she blocked me and it was the last time i talked to her.
I could not understand why she did what she did.
I reenacted the whole thing, started to do what she did to me to other women, to put myself in her shoe and understand the reason behind her actions. I dated multiple women since then, from cuddling to making out, but didn’t go anything more than that cause i was constantly thinking about her and couldn’t get past my conscience. I thought about her everyday, even while on a date with other women, wishing it was her.
What’s going on with me? Why can’t i seem to get over her? Why is this girl that i met in less than 2 weeks are giving me this much impact? I spent more time trying to move on than the time with her.
Not like i did not try. Maybe I am still looking for closure?
Please share your thoughts and advices. Thank you.
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