I've (26F) been dating a guy (30M) for around 3 months. After around 3 dates, I invited him round to my place and as we were making out, he told me he'd never done anything more than kiss someone. I told him it was fine, but we weren't able to have sex as he couldn't get hard. He said he was just nervous and I reassured him that it was fine. Over the last couple of months, he can now get hard...but only when I'm giving him a handjob or through dry humping. As soon as I suggest sex, he loses his erection. He also doesn't ever suggest sex; he just wants to grind on me and cum on me. When we first started dating, he was very interested in pleasing me, but since I've given him a handjob, he now only focusses on his pleasure. I'm becoming very frustrated at this, but I also don't want to seem like I'm pressuring him.
Last weekend, I dressed up and tried to initiate with him. He stopped me and said he only wants to kiss me. I was hurt by this and the next morning, asked if he's even attracted to me and that if he isn't, that's fine, but I would rather know. He just told me that in the future, he will let me know if he ever finds me unattractive. Later on, he came onto me, but would only grind on me and then came. After this exchange, I told him that I need more than just dry humping, and he said he would try harder.
I'm really unsure what to do. I like him as a person and he treats me really well, but I would like some physical intimacy with him. I'm feeling very insecure that he's not actually attracted to me, and just wants a body to grind on?
Any advice would be much appreciated.
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