So basically, I was talking with this girl online(couldn't meet right away because of distance) and even though I liked her I wasn't sure if she liked me so I was actually gonna stop talking to her and then she literally wrote me the next day at 7 am super excited to talk with me, after that I was happy af and we even had plans to meet but then she ends up ghosting me and I reached out to her and never got a respond. Well, I made a post once talking about how I was upset about that and some people still acted like I was in the wrong here cause "she doesn't owe me an explanation". Are you fucking kidding me ??? So someone can just lead me on like that and even agree on meeting me and then i'm the asshole for wanting to be treated like an actual person ??? Cause I wasn't even looking for a second chance or anything like that, I just wanted her to tell me something cause I was really confused about it and I literally told her that if she doesn't want to keep talking to me it's okay but that I would like to know what happened cause I was confused about it. I get that technically speaking no one owes anyone anything but you can't just lead people on like that, treat them in such a disposable way and then justify it to yourself just cause "you don't owe them anything" as if you weren't dealing with actual human beings with feelings.
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