Weird third date!!!!!
I know redditors aren’t gonna give me the answer/ we can’t read his mind. but if you have some time to spare to read some boring anecdote.. I’d appreciate 😂
For context - met on tinder, and he probably knows I’m going on multiple dates.
First date was good - I didn’t think I was physically attracted to him at first but wow we had the best conversation! Took a walk after dinner, we walked past his place (as he stays in the central area) he asked if I wanted to go up for a drink, I said no thank you it’s late, so I went back home.
We had on & off conversations after that, for maybe two weeks? (think it was more of me texting more) and then I joked about wanting to go to the area to see him or something and he said that will make his day.
Second date - We met again for dinner, and then I went back to his place after because I fell down (lol). Spent the first few hours watching tv and cuddling, and then we had sex (best sex ever, I’d add). He asked if I’m staying over I said no I’ve to work tmr..
He texted me after I left, and then he was like “goodluck for tomorrow’s interview 🥰” with that emoji. Hah I didn’t reciprocate with it. That week he texts me quite a bit to ask about my day, and then (since I accidentally left my bookmark there) he was like when would you like to come collect it? I joked - “why does this sound like a booty call :( “ he said - “it’s not supposed to” and then I said - “yup it is not.”
Third date was weird - we met at his place, he cooked, we watched tv, and I sat on the other side of the sofa (lol so no cuddle) and he didn’t initiate either. Few hours later eventually I went to cuddle up beside him and he barely touched me too! He did put his arms on my shoulder and that’s that hmm. (I wonder if it was bcos I said no booty call?) anyway we were both rlly sleeping (he didn’t sleep the night before) and then he asked if I’m staying over I said no, so he kinda hinted for me to leave it I’m not staying over 😅 I thought i’d wanted some physical actions so I laid beside him and hugged him but we kind of both fell asleep (?) and then he was all “maybe we should call it a night”. So we ended the night early.
He did text me to check if I’m home though, and apologize for being so tired.
I do think overall that night was a bit strange… and we left rather abruptly.
Anyway it’s been about a week and he hasn’t texted me; knowing he is not much of a texter I did reach out twice and we made conversations but that’s that. It’s the weekend and he never reached out either.
Not sure if this is a slow fade, or I just have to wait it out - and if it was a slow fade, why? And what went wrong - why’d he not even touch me that day?
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