We've been dating for 2 months and have been 'official' for a few weeks. I trust that he has good intentions because he's very thoughtful and makes sure to spend a lot of time with me, messages me every day, etc. He has been very consistent and made it clear he wants a long term relationship with me. Our intimacy usually consists of just kissing but last night, when he took me to his bedroom for the first time, we started making out and he kept touching me. He asked if it was okay and I said yes but I still felt hesitant and I kept getting intrusive thoughts that he just wants to sleep with me.
I felt this way with my past relationships, but the hesitancy was stronger this time around. I feel like I have an ingrained fear that people only want to sleep with me, since my very first boyfriend basically bullied me into having sex with him only after a month of knowing each other. How can I get rid of this fear?
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