There's these two girls (girl A and B for sake of the story) who me and my friend met through class (last year of college). We've been hanging out for a few months and I'm into girl A. Because she's in a relationship that I don't want to interfere with I didn't flirt with her/make a move. But that doesn't change the fact that I just very much like her.
The "problem" (which I very much created myself in a sense which is very stupid and biggotish- I know) is that her friend - girl B - likes me. She is always kind of flirty and acts very interested. She's a very kind and cool person whom I'd like to know better and already value as a friend in a way. So I didn't want to make it awkward by saying anything wrong or whatever. But last week she asked if I wanted to do something with the two of us. I should have probably said no in hindsight but suggested we could grab a coffee because I thought I could just show her through chilling with her that I'm not interested in her romantically.
We had a really fun time talking and ultimately she spent the night (long story short: My mom left her car keys at my place and wanted me to check if they were still there and she came with me. But she forgot her bicycle and it was too late to go home) . We didn't do anything and I didn't give off any signals that suggested that I wanted to make a move/her to make a move.
Now here it is: when she was going to walk out I just went in for a goodbye kiss on the cheek and a hug but she kissed me on the mouth. I kind of froze and recipocrated which is horrible I know but I just didn't know how to handle it. I think she felt something was off because she asked if this was what I wanted and my dumbass said yeah no worries.
I have no idea how to handle this situation going forward. Should I just tell her I'm not interested in her that way? Is there any chance of still being friends? Cause I really like her as a person and I wouldn't want this to get in the way of our friendship.
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