Little bit long story but i need some advice.
I matched with this girl online. And out of blue I invited to visit me while I spend some time in the village. Surprisingly, she accepted the invitation and got here (4h drive).
We had pretty much nice conversations online and I assumed based on that she made a decision. We had a dinner (done by grandma) and then we went for a swimming in the river.
She likes deep conversations and stuff like this. Tbh its not really my thing, im a developer/coder (introvert) and prefer to write my code than talking about some deep things with people. I like to keep the convos simple . But she triggered me by saying that i dont talk much and I felt bad about it. I know its my problem, normally i like to listen then talk but i tried my best to talk about “deep topics” such as love and so on.
But apparently out thoughts or opinions didn’t really match, we have different opinions about different topics. which is totally fine by me but in the middle of me talking and explaining something she said “you know im tired and I don’t have energy to talk about this and i want to sleep “. but this didn’t sound like she said but more like offended or angry. And made me to feel bad about my self and my views about these topics. maybe worth to mention that im not racist, or homophobic. so it was all normal talk.
So i showed the bedroom and let her sleep. We still have tomorrow entire day to spend and not sure how to act or talk to her.
I was thinking that I would offer to drop her to bus station if she feels like going back and not waiting entire day to go back as we were supposed to go back the day after tomorrow together.
Please advise how can fix the situation or at least kill the awkwardness moment tomorrow.
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