So when I use the term 'situationship', here is a little background info. I (21F) have been seeing this guy (22M) for around 7 months. It's been on and off but we have decided to properly commit to each other. The problem, however, is that he has gotten a job overseas, and although it is only an hour flight, it means that we have to do long distance. I have university so I cannot come with him. We have both decided that we want to continue things, as we both have great chemistry and I enjoy his company. We have both said I love you to each other and everything, yet he won't make us official, hence the situationship term. He has said he is not ready to officially use the term 'boyfriend' and 'girlfriend' as that means he has to introduce me to his family, which he is not ready for because he is unsure that he or I will end things due to the fact that we are currently doing long distance. He and his ex were together for 5 years and almost engaged, so he is making sure I am the right girl for him. I have told him that I won't tell my family about him, as currently only my mum knows, unless we are official. He says we can look back in a few months time and if we are still going strong despite long distance he will ask me. I am annoyed because this is 5 months (we had a 2 month break) of getting to know each other, saying I love you and becoming intimate with each other, yet I am still in a dating(???) stage with him. It's been a few days since we sat down and talked with each other about this, and I asked him if we could call and facetime every day if possible, but every time I have initiated a phone conversation, I am shut down by him, saying he is busy and he will call back later, and the phone calls never end up coming. He hardly texts me, and although I know he is busy with work, I can see his snapscore going up on his snapchat, so I know he is on his phone. It has been getting on my nerves and I just need advice from someone as to what I should do, as I feel like I am letting myself be walked all over. Any advice is highly appreciated. Thank you.
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