I(34m) have a crush on my colleague(31 f)

I've been having a huge crush on my colleague. I can't stop thinking about her. it's driving me crazy. It's been a month since I have developed this crush. We both have been working in this office for one and half month. She actually got hired two days after I transfered to that office. I didn't have feelings for her at first but then I started to like her.

Some background about me: I have only had one girlfriend in my life who broke up with me 10 years ago. I went on a date with another girl a few years ago but it didn't workout at all. I'm also ,basically, a virgin and haven had the experience of the actual sex.

I had stopped caring about relationships for 5 years until I saw her. I was done with dating for all these years and thought I will never find anyone else ,since I had literally swiped right on more than a thousand women on dating apps before that but only got 2 matches who didn't even respond to any of my messages (I was polite and sometimes even creative by the way.) I used to be determined and tell all my friends I will never marry any girl. I was done.

This girl appeared out of nowhere.

I honestly don't know what to do and if she rejects me it will destroy me. The situation is also complicated. Her sister is also in the same room that I work in , so she comes and visits her sister regularly. She's really nice and cute and smiles most of the time. We also talk about work sometime.

I know that dating your colleague is a career suicide. I don't care much tbh. I earn 200 dollars in a month anyway in this shitty country (Iran). I've been dead inside all these years. I messaged her on telegram(forwarded a news on telegram), we talked for a few minutes. I was the one who kept asking questions and then that was it. BTW she had already got my number for work before but when I texted her on telegram she asked who I am because she hadn't saved my phone number in her contact list.

I honestly don't know what to do. Text her again on Telegram or just go brutal mode and ask her out in person. BTW she has a bit of religious background ,I guess, which I think it's a good thing. I don't know what to do.

Tl,Dr: I have a crush on my colleague but might lose my job or have to change my division at the department I work at if she rejects me.

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