This is a lot to say but I’ll try to be as brief as I can… Bear with my English. I am mostly looking for advice from females to a men that means no harm towards women, just be thrutful about my intentions, so please be straight and honest with your answers.
I spent 11 years of my life in 2 relationships. When I turn 19 I moved to an apartment with my first ex-gf then at 27 with the second one and we split up when I was 30 y/o. Now I’m 31 and I’m doing uber as a side hustle and I started to get hit on by a lot of women who would request rides.
I realized driving for uber that American women or women who have live in the U.S. approached me because the approaching part was already done. They’re inside the car with a guy who don’t creep them out so half the job is done for them. Only thing left is to start asking questions to get my attention and ask me at the end what I’m doing after I drop them off. I get that question asked an awful lot. So I figured that that was a hint and if I like the girl I would just say “I made no plans after seeing you” or just turn around and smile.
But here’s the problem, 90% of the time that ends up with them asking for my number and I don’t want to give up my number out no matter how pretty she is. Let me be more clear, I AM DONE WITH RELATIONSHIPS. I don’t want relationships , possibly never again. So how can I let a beautiful and clean women ( when I say clean I mean that she takes care of herself) that I just want to have sex but without the need of jumping into the sex talk? Because doing that actually kills my sex vibe and hers too and I stop feeling her and that “feminine vibe” is what I crave for. I’ve tried jumping right into it but without being gross and still I feel that it creates a lot of pressure in both of us and now we just have to do it.
I like it more when it hasn’t been talked about and the sexual desire is growing in both of us but I don’t know how to do that in a short period of time. It take me days and that builds love and relationships. And I’m terrible at cutting a women off when I made them believe I felt something for them other than sex. Thanks in advance.
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