20F and I matched on tinder about two months ago. We went on a date after chatting for a few days. It was great, we both clicked, laughed and planned a second one shortly after. We went on a second date almost a week and a half later. I brought her, her favorite flowers, we did an activity, went to dinner, and then went to the movies.
The next day I asked her if she would be interested in a third date. Her response was "Can we keep being friends just like this, I'm not sure I'm ready for anything more just yet". We continued to chat, and a few days later I told her that I did not want to overstep since the dynamic has changed. She said that she did not want to lead me on.
A few days after that I got invited to join her dungeons and dragons group. I did. Since then I have been to her house quite a few times and have met her family (grandparents included). One of these times she asked if I would like for her to make me a loaf of sourdough. She then asked what my favorite animal was. I came over, she gave me an entire loaf of sourdough with my favorite animal painted on it.
This past weekend, we had planned to do something together. We went to her place, swam in her pool, and then I had dinner with her and family. Her, her mom and dad then went outside and picked me a container in raspberries to take home along with some farm fresh eggs. We hungout afterwards where I fed her horse an apple and then we watched movies. I went back over to her house the next day for dungeons and dragons. After that she texted me asking if I wanted to come over again next week to have a cozy movie night with her.
I feel a little confused. I still have feelings for her. She friendzoned me about a month ago all of this has happened since then. I want to respect her and her boundaries. Talking to a few friends some of them say maybe this is how she is with all of her friends or maybe she does like me.
I am still interested in her. I would like for us to be something more. However, I want to respect her boundaries. Am I being delusional to think that she might like me? Regardless, I want to lead with honesty. How do I tell how I feel without making things awkward?
TLDR: I (22F) met a girl on tinder (20F)two months ago . After two dates I was friendzoned. After being friendzoned we continue to see eachother often. I have met and spent time with her and her family. I have grown to like to her even more, still holding feelings. How do I tell her that I still have feelings for her without making things awkward? Am I being delusional?
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