Pls just need some help
Me (21) gf (21) have one huge issue that keeps coming back over and over and idk how to go about it
So basically me and my gf have been dating for almost a year now, everything’s great I love her with all my heart I can confidently say she’s the same. I just have a very big issue ab our past bc I feel she did me wrong but I also want to be able to get over it maturely. So when we were first starting out at the talking/hooking up stage I was under the impression that we weren’t seeing other ppl bc she stated she wasn’t the woman to mess around w multiple men and that if she was even talking then that’s enough. So we were talking for ab 2 months, I was thinking that we were gonna finally be able to be together and start a relationship. Well I had found out that while I was falling in love and trying my best to not speak to other woman, she was boinking another man bc she was afraid of her emotions she had for me and wanted to rid of them by any means possible and had boinked another man multiple times while we were starting out. Now I really wouldn’t care logically but tbh I honestly feel a type of way bc I can understand wanting to be reckless being a teenager and wanting to hookup w random ppl and what not, but I feel a huge part of me is hurt bc I had a previous relationship for 3 years and during that entire time all I wanted to do, bc I felt completely trapped that woman forced me to ask her for my friends to come over MY HOUSE, trapped is an understatement, was to go out and talk to woman and hookup and do the thing we all do as teenagers, only porblem is a few months after I ended my previous relationship and had started talking to other woman I shut everyone else out bc my gf was entering my life and im sort of a simp. So I’m at a point now where I feel some regret and that I missed out on what I could’ve had. We spoke ab this were very open and she even tried to offer me to basically breakup for a week and do what I want and come back but as a human being I see that as completely wrong and I could never willingly hurt my significant other bc I was hurt in the past I just don’t see it as right. Any advice I could really use it, I do want to be w her I just be hurting sometimes
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