I (24f) met my fwb (30M) 4 months ago on a dating app. He told me upfront that he had just gotten out of a long term relationship and was just looking for something casual.
The problem is the last thing I would describe our relationship as is casual. From the day we met until now, when we aren't together we're texting or on a video call or something. The other night I was watching a show that he introduced me to and he video called me and we sat on the phone for over 5 hours watching the show together even though we weren't together physically. We spent my birthday together and sometimes spend days on end with each other. The sex is the best that I've had in a long time, he says it's the best he's had ever. We're currently planning a weekend getaway for later this month. He occasionally mentions us doing something together that isnt scheduled until months from now. He sometimes buys things for my niece that he hasn't met because I've mentioned things in passing that she likes and he thinks she'd like it.
I actually really like him and enjoy his company but it's becoming confusing. It feels like we're in a relationship but we aren't. I can't imagine doing all of the things that he's been doing for me, if he weren't somewhat seriously interested. Admittedly, I'm developing some feelings but I'm not interested in trying to force him to be in a relationship with me, I just don't how to go about setting boundaries to make things less confusing, without that ruining our current dynamic. Any advice?
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