I'm a 30 year old woman and I've been single for approaching two years. My last relationship lasted about three years (although were on and off at times). I took a few months after the breakup to heal and enjoyed rebuilding my life, and having the time to myself. It really was great. But I'd say I've been meaningfully attempting to date for the past year and a half in the hopes of finding a longterm partner, a best friend to share a life with, and I'm extraordinarily single. I haven't gone further than three dates with any of the men I've dated (a mix of not having chemistry, them deciding they don't know if they're in a place to date, which maybe they just weren't that into me etc).
I'd say I've gone out with around ~25 men in this time... and I'm starting to feel really discouraged. It's starting to feel like a lot of my peers have already picked their person, and like I might not be able to find someone who I'm excited about, who also wants to be with me. It just feels like this is a really long time to be single, and have gone on enough dates, that maybe something is wrong here and I'm just someone who is not meant to have a partner. I guess I'm just wondering if this is terribly abnormal to be single for two years when you've been putting the hard work into dating trying to find a match?
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