I've (f24) been seeing a guy (m24) for a couple of months now, in my first relationship. I'm really into him, and I can tell he feels the same about me. We are quite different people, but I like how he is. Sometimes, though, I'm not sure he likes my own differences.
He's a very healthy person, and it almost feels like he's badgering me sometimes. I'm not super unhealthy, but I really don't like water for example, and he keeps saying I really should drink water and not have as much sugar as I do. I get it, and maybe I'll consider it, but it makes me feel a bit like a child.
Then there's his competitive side. I find it endearing how much he thinks about things, even just silly little games. However, he recently got annoyed with me because I do not take games seriously at all. I have other things that I need to take seriously, that I don't want to waste brain power on these things, and I enjoy not taking them seriously. He apologised for getting annoyed at me, but it just makes me worry he likes me, but he wants me to be even better.
I'm happy with who I am, and I feel I'm enough. Yeah, there are things that I can change about myself, and I have considered being healthier, but I'd want to do it for myself and nobody else. And I don't want to change how I play games.
I'm enjoying our relationship like I said, it's just these small things. What should I do?
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