I'm currently in my final year of university and for the past couple of years I haven't been in anything serious. My ex and I broke up before I went off to do my degree abroad, basically to end things on a good note since we didn't expect that long distance would work out.
So far, most relationships have been friends with benefits situations, even though some may feel closer than others. None of them have been a relationship where I'm considering serious commitment. Anyways, now I'm looking for something serious and I've been on 3 dates with each of these two guys, separately. If it matters, I haven't slept with either of them, and only kissed one of them.
Both seem great thus far, the problem is that I don't really know how serious dating works. Previously, I'd steer the conversation tends towards sexual preferences, kinks and so on, things will then move on from there. These previous dates I've been on, I didn't bring any of that up, and the conversations we've had have been pretty great. The thing is, I don't know where things go from here both sexually and emotionally. What is the general number of dates until sex? What should serious dating be like ? Is there anything I need to know? I'd appreciate all advice!
Not sure if this information is important, but I'm a female, 22, pansexual. The guys are 30 and 33, both are generally lovely and mature people who are not jerks.
In short : I've been doing casual sex for 3 years now and I don't really know how to date seriously. Help me. What should serious dating be like ?
[link] [comments]
from Dating Advice https://ift.tt/38LggNj
via IFTTT
No comments:
Post a Comment