I get rejected so often, and always in the shittiest way. I feel like I’m a funny, friendly, confident guy. I think I’m handsome. I really believe that I should be doing better than I am, but I never get anywhere.
Every time I get a a girls number, or match with someone on tinder (extremely rare that I even get matches), I just get ghosted every time.
It doesn’t matter what I say, whether I start off with a corny joke, a question about themselves or their bio, asking how they’re doing, whatever. Every time I get ghosted.
Often times they just don’t even say anything at all. Why even match with me? Why not just say no? Why not just explain that they aren’t interested? What do I do to deserve ghosting?
Here’s some examples of what I mean. The first girl was super quick to respond at first, and then never said anything again. Probably the 100th time it’s happened to me. The second girl I met at a bar, we talked for like an hour and were both super chatty. She laughed at a bunch of my jokes and was just as into the conversation as I was (it seemed).
Maybe I’m just butt fuckin ugly, because I honestly couldn’t tell you why I fail, and I definitely don’t think I’m doing anything to come off like a jerk.
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