I met this guy through my friend who is getting married- I’m the maid of honour and he’s the best man. (Wedding hasn’t happened yet) We’re in our late 20s and this story makes me feel like a schoolgirl and sounds a bit cringe. We’re both single, he’s a really nice guy, definitely my type., and I’d love to get with him and see where things go.. The problem is I can’t tell if he’s into me, and that makes me paralysed in doing anything to show him that I am.
The four of us went away for New Years and I was surprised when he kissed me twice at midnight (they fucked up with the countdown and did it twice) and then on the bus back we happened to be somehow secretly holding hands for a while (but we’d also had a lot to drink at that point). Apparently he also told the groom I was cute after we first met.
However I feel like these things don’t necessarily have to mean anything, but I feel clueless and I just don’t know what to do. Also the fact that I currently live in another country (but have made it clear I plan on moving back this year) could be a deterrent for him even if he likes me.
I asked him to go for a coffee this weekend before I fly back, and feel like I should maybe use this as an opportunity to figure out if he likes me but have no clue how to go about it.
I obviously don’t want to make things awkward for the wedding in case he’s not into me, so I said it to my friend, the bride, (who btw has been telling me he’s a great catch) and she said it’s cute that I fancy him and that she doesn’t want to sway us either way but that she’s glad we get on well...
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