I am 25 and while I have been on dates and kissed a few women, I haven't gone much further than that. I know everyone says it doesn't matter when or if you ever get into a relationship or have sex but it does to me. Knowing that other people have had those experiences, knowing what its like to be with women in their early 20s, being able to learn about relationships and sex with someone, not ever being anyones first anything, not being inexperienced at a late age while someone you meet could have had partner after partner makes me feel so lost.
I get I need to build my life up and not make women a priority but other people are doing that while going through all these experiences. Like sure maybe I may meet someone at a later age but at that point where is fun, the joy, the butterflies, the excitement?
I will be stumbling around to figure out when to ask her to be my girlfriend when she could have decided I waited too long. I will be having my first time while she is waiting for it to be over. What if she wants to settle down because she had fun where as I haven't? What if she calls me immature because I don't want to settle down?
I have seen posts about how older guys dating women in their 20s is wrong. How if they aren't ready to settle down they are the problem.
Just seeing all these people in relationships and hooking up all while I am just alone. Seeing the years go by and everyone is growing and maturing with their relationships and partners and having fun. But I can't even manage to meet a woman let alone get a date. I just don't know how to feel anymore.
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