I met (25f) a guy on Bumble, and he brought up the idea to meet at my place to eat dinner. I wanted to go on a walk for the "date" because it's hard to date with the virus and not many places are open, but it was storming that day. I was unsure about meeting at my place because I didn't want to have sex, but since we have rescheduled multiple times and the weather was bad all weekend, I wanted to get the first meeting out the way. Less than an hour of meeting, he starts asking me about the last time I had sex and was in a relationship. I told him that I haven't had sex in a little over 6 months ago, because my ex and I were going through a toxic time. He immediately starts saying that I must be wanting "it" and talking about condoms. I immediately tell him "no, I don't". After dinner, we cuddle and he starts feeling me up. I push his hand anyway and tell him "No". He lets out a long "Ughhhhh" and stops. That expression from him made me annoyed me and mad because I don't even know this guy and he didn't ask if I'm comfortable with sex on the first "date" (which I'm not). He ends up leaving an hour later to hang out with his friends for poker. To leave in the middle of a "date", I instantly felt he was only interested in having sex.
I was so uncomfortable that night that I was relieve when he left for poker, and I didn't care to follow up if he made it to his friend's place. The next day, I felt the need to immediately unmatch him, but I decided to tell him how I felt super uncomfortable and didn't want to pursue him again. He apologizes and states that he has always hooked up with women on the first date, and that was probably his problem. I accepted his apology and told him that I wished the date went differently and that I was confused because he said that he was interested in a relationship. I didn't hear a response back, so I ended up unmatching him after all. I feel like a dodge a HUGE BULLET.
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